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The Community of Suffering Mercy

3Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. 5For just as the sufferings of Christ flow over into our lives, so also through Christ our comfort overflows. 6If we are distressed, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort, which produces in you patient endurance of the same sufferings we suffer. 7And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.

~ 2 Corinthians 1:3-7

As if pain and suffering weren’t bad enough, one of the common features of suffering is that those who are afflicted tend to feel terribly alone in their distress. We often contribute to that isolation by distancing ourselves – either physically or emotionally – from suffering people because we just don’t know what do say or do. We want to solve problems, not just acknowledge them, and when we don’t know how to solve the problem we sometimes make the mistake of not acknowledging it at all.

The Christians in Corinth are going through a particularly difficult time and Paul wants them to know they are not alone, so he charges right out of the gate in this letter with a praise for the “Father of compassion and the God of all comfort.” Paul wants these believers to know, first of all, that they do not suffer without relief, for our God is the God “who comforts us in all our troubles.”

But notice, Paul says here that at times comfort from God comes not in the form of a solution, but in the form of empathy and understanding from others who have suffered! Paul says

“[God] comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God” (v4).

Paul then uses a powerful image to drive home his point: Picture a large kettle filling up from a rapidly flowing tap, the liquid racing to the brim and them gushing over the edge, splashing down the sides and running out onto the floor.

This is the suffering of Christ.

As the people who place our trust in the faithfulness of Christ, his suffering inevitably spills out onto us. Yet, this overflow is also the comfort of Christ, and as he comforts others we too are bathed in that merciful flow.

Paul’s evocative image illustrates a surprising and distinctively Christian truth that we can receive comfort and empathy from God for our sufferings because we serve a God who has himself suffered. Christ meets us in our pain and misery – not from a sympathetic distance, but shoulder-to-shoulder in the muck and mire of our broken humanity. He has been there as a broken human, and he offers us mercy from the wellspring of his empowering grace.

When we have received this mercy  – sometimes in prayer, sometimes in scripture, but mostly in community – we respond by sharing it to others around us. That is the community of mercy in action. The gift of grace must be moved or else rot and spoil like lay-old manna. We are common sufferers, and common comforters, in Christ and with Christ, and by this activity we begin to enjoy a kind of equality that is peculiarly meant for the people of the Kingdom of God (2 Co 8:13-15).

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The Challenge of Community

I’m processing some of this publicly in the interests of transparency, and in the hope that some of you out there will have something to share that might help.

For about 3 weeks now at Ikon Community we’ve been engaged in an intentional conversation about what it might mean to be a “missional church.” The first week I talked about the basic paradigm shift from attractional (Christendom) church to missional church and proposed a “Discipleship > Community > Mission” rhythm of life. Then the second week I unpacked the subject of discipleship, or spiritual formation. So, at last night’s gathering we talked about community (I’ll bet you can see where this is going, eh?).

I’m sure many would disagree with me, but in my mind this is the critical topic in the formation of a post-Christendom church. Why? Continue reading…

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Introducing Ikon Community

For those who want only the facts, here’s the link: ikoncommunity.com

For those who like a story, here’s the tale…

As many of you know Jenell and I moved to San Diego one year ago for the purpose of eventually starting a church. We were committed to spending the first year immersing ourselves in the local culture, making new friends and finding new career paths so we could pursue the vision of a grassroots network of Jesus-followers.

That vision started taking shape in March when we began to gather regularly with a few family and friends – all of whom were hungry for a deeper expression of Christian community, more focused on justice and mercy. Since then we’ve come together every Sunday night to enjoy each other’s company, watch our kids tear around the house, eat good food, drink cheap wine, celebrate communion, gather around scripture, and pray for one another.

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Worship as Eucatastrophe

I’ve already stated that I believe everything we do is worship. In my opinion, the only question is, to whom or what are we giving our worship at any given time with our day-to-day choices and subsequent actions? Consequently, I think there’s a great danger to spiritual formation when we perpetuate the modern entertainment/spectator approach to worship because it reinforces the sacred/secular split most of us live in every day and encourages us to remain largely disconnected from the business of being salt and light.

When I talk to Christians about this idea of integrating everything in our lives under the category of worship, they often express relief. People are hungry for more holistic lives, and overwhelmingly weary of managing their fragmented selves. Doing so takes a tremendous amount of emotional and psychological energy.

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The Mega-Freeloader Church

In 2005 the Hartford Institute of Religious Research conducted a “Megachurch Report,” among 1210 “mega-churches” in the United States at that time (qualified by having an average weekend attendance of over 2000). This was double the number that existed in the year 2000. These churches had a total average attendance of 3612 people every weekend (most are 2000-3000, while a few are over 10,000).

How effectively are these churches making disciples? This is a notoriously difficult question for church leaders and observers to answer, but what if we took just one indicator; volunteer service. I think most would agree that serving according to your gifts through ministries like outreach, children’s ministry, admnistrative support, prayer ministry, counseling, etc. would be at least one obvious fruit of living in a covenant relationship with your community of faith.

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A Life of Gifts

I remember exactly when I realized our fun little experiment at Twoshirts.org had swerved completely out of my control: it was the day I learned someone had given away a grandmother.

People had been giving each other lamps and toasters and other such items for months. That alone was amazing to me, because for years I’d been fascinated with Acts 2:44-45:

“The believers had everything in common and gave to each other as they had need.”

Really? Everything in common?

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Are women equal in the Gift Community?

On the heels of my previous post about the means of the gospel being the “Gift Community,” some might ask, “If the application of the gospel is gift-based, does that mean all are equal participants (since everyone has gifts)…including women?”

The answer is “yes,” especially since creating equality is a major goal of the gospel itself and any well-intentioned gift economy (for an understanding of gifts and biblical equality see Ex 16; Luke 3; Acts 2, Rom 12, 1 Cor 12, and 2 Cor 8).

This is only at issue because of the way we have historically read the Apostle Paul. Here’s what New Testament scholar NT Wright has to say about it (HT: Bill Kinnon & Jonathan Brink):

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